• When taking photos, be careful that the light and the Perspex from the isolette does not reflect.
  • A video camera is the best to use. Try to hire one if you do not have one.
  • If possible leave your camera under the isolette, and ask the nurses to take photos of special times, when you’re not there.
  • Ask the nurses to take hand and foot prints along the way; you’ll be surprised how fast they grow.
  • Ask if you can put your wedding ring on the arm of the baby, for photos.
  • Ask to put a key or money next to your baby’s foot for photos.
  • Lay your hand flat next to your baby’s head this gives others an idea of how small they are.
  • Ask to keep old heart monitors wires, and arm bands, and identification cards, nappies for a keepsake box.
  • Put one leg of the baby’s next to your pointer finger, for photos.
  • Write down as much or as little as you want too, great memories
  • List the weight and length of your baby when you know it is going to get weighed.
  • Write down how many mls your baby is allowed for feeding
  • If ventilated, write down the rates of the ventilator, and what oxygen levels.
  • Write down when you get your 1st cuddle; make sure you get a photo.
  • To make the baby feel more like yours, ask can you put your own clothes own them if you have them.
  • Touch and talk to your baby, read a story to him/her if you like, they know your voice.
  • Ask if you can place a tennis ball near your baby’s head for photo’s.
  • Try to take time out, have a day away from the hospital. Enjoy a meal, take a walk in the park.
  • Ask a friend or family member to prepare a meal, do the laundry or mow the grass, all these little things take up time, when you could be at the hospital or just tired from visiting.
  • Keep a daily diary for your baby so when they are older they can read through it.
  • Place family photos on the isolette so the baby can look at them.